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This may seem a little lame but i am going to talk to you today about friendship. It is a very valuble thing, and you have got to hold on to it for as long as you can. If you are young, you probably wont have all your same friends as you did in primary school when you are an adult, some people have many from primary, some have none. When you have a friend dont take advantage of them or try and pick between them who is your best friend and who is close friends, and who are just friends. That confuses things and causes lots of arguments. Value your friends for who the are. Not what they are. Not their colour of skin, not their religion, not what football tem they support, not even if they have the same or completely different interests as you. I like to imagine it like this.

There are no people in the world, well, there are, but we are all floating about in souls, little wisps of white, you cant judge people, only by the way they act, but your personality stops you from saying anything personal. Thats how it should be, and nobody is judged, hurt, offended and everyone would be happy.

There is this thing that was going about on instagram for a while and it was about what F.R.E.N.D.S stands for.

F ight for you
R espect you
I nclude you
E ncourage you when you need it most
N eed you
D eserve you
S tand by you.

That is what i call a worthy saying. I myself have many friends, one who which lives around the corner from me and we are very close. Sometimes we get in arguments, but when we grow up a bit and realise we are not five year olds fighting over barbie dolls, we pull together as friends, and not just the two of us but if two us get in an argument the team kinda splits in two. So it not only brings you together when you are friends with someone, but it brings your other friends closer too.

That is what i would call friendship. One thing though. Treat your friends in the way that you want to be treated even if they are being mean to you. Stick it out, be the bigger person, and theyll come through.

Until Next time, little bloggers!

Do you guys ever feel like yiu are split into sevan people? I am not talking Harry potter horcruxes, but like the emotions in inside out. There are like seven people inside of you and you can vhange from one to another before you can say quidditch. So i dont feel like i am the only one, please comment and tell me if you feel like this too. Here are the seven;

Anger and Force

These two emotions come out from the blue. It can also come with cheek and sass. All you want to do is scream and shout at the person closest to you, and, more often tahn nit, taht oerson is not to blame but you are so angry taht you end up in an argument with them and it makes matters a whole lot worse. Parental problems are the worst. You claim you didnt do something and it can go one of two ways depending on whether you are telling the truth or not. So here is what happens with the two ways.

1. The truth

Often if you’re telling the truth your parents may think you’re not and then they get all grumpy and send you to your room even though you did nothing wrong or at least not do anything intentionally. when the time comes that the emotions have had enough and you have too so you start screaming and shouting and that just makes matters a lot worse. yeah but the thing is the other emotions cant calm anger and force because, well, its anger and force, and if you are anything like me, they are hard to control. Well, you lose your temper, and its your parents fault. They deffinetly lost some brownie points in that one.

2. Lies

Now, i know, people say you should never tell lies. But everyone forgets and if your brother hits you, and you scream ” MUM!!!” and she doesent answer, then he hits yiu again, you forget that he is 3,4 years younger than you and you hit him back, i  self defence. Now when you realise you are going to get into trouble for it, you lie, that does not help. So then you desperately try to explain but your parents dont listen. Good one on that one? So if you are a parent, try to think before you act, and use yiur detective skills to figure out what to do and who is telling the truth, and think of a resonab,e punishment, like when you were a child! (but no spanking!) Though, think abiut this, your friend has got it into their head that they can sing and tehy are going to enter themselves into the school talent show and you dont want them to embarrass themselves so, there are two ways you can do this.

hey”(friend)

“hey”(me)”

Hows the talent show coming on

Good. Why?

“Because your singing sounds like *#€%

” How rude! If you think i am going to still be your friend after this, you are really delusional, and not to mention wrong.”

Thus is not the way to go about it. I would reccommend this.

“Hey

Hey

Hows the talent show coming

Good Why?

I was just thinking maybe you shouldn’t sing.

And why on earth would i do that.

Well, i think your voice needs a bit more work on those high notes, you know when you go a little bit screechy?

I know, but are you trying to say my singing is terrible, because is not, everyone says i was born with the talent.

No, i am saying that you don’t want to embarrass yourself by starting off beautifully, and then ruin because of that high last chorus.

I guess you are right, i will leave it until next term and try again

So, anger and force dont do you any favours, but you have to live with them. If you try to control your temper, and you are good at it,  every once in a while, just blow up at someone, but make sure they deserve it. Itll do you good, and most likely, them, a ton of good.

Cheek and Sass

I put these two in the same collumn because tgey work well together, and sometimes its not si good when they do. You might d this without meaning to to your friends and then anger shouts at them and that therefore causes you to feel angry at yourself and maybe cry. I was crying because  i  blew up at one of my best driends, but purely becayse we pepretend to hate each other. But this time  i wss meanng it and he was being suuuupppperr ignorant and impolite and nit respaevting others. Blowing up at him as a big mistakei know, but i couldnt help it and tejn i got angry at myself and started to cry. Tehy thofht i was really wierd as, to them, i am a tough character ro always stands up to her beliefs amd for her friends. Most if that is right. He had never seen me cry and i felt really embarrased, crying, in front of a boy. After we made up and were friends again

Well, i am really sorry to end this now, but, believe it or not, i have been trying to finish this article for about a month and a half now, and, i think, instead of just going back, i will let the emotions deal with the rest, though there are many more, all shoving their way into your head to get attention. I really need to end this now, as i want to write a new article.

Until the next time,

The little blogger.

Thats become quite a habit, please tell me if you like that ending or if i should do it differetky, i was watching a movie about a blogger and thats what they done, only with their name, not the little blogger. Thanks! Here we go again.

Until the next time,

The little blogger

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